Marriage Preparation/Education:

Why invest in marriage education?  Even in a world that says divorce is ok, people still hope they can have the forever after happy with one love.

So investing in your marriage before you say “I Do” gives you a unique picture of who you are as a couple; where you are naturally strong and how to strengthen the areas that don’t seem as compatible.  It’s all about skill building and a heart for harmony.

I use two tools that have proven over the course of 15 plus years to help couples say “I Do” with an intimate understanding of how to do “I Do”

I use Prepare Enrich and Temperament – these tools spark conversation, set realistic goals and expectations and create a common language for communication and conflict resolution.  Temperament tells us who we are on the inside, how God created us uniquely. – so self-awareness and acceptance of our own needs and our differing partner’s needs give us a true sense of how to make a home that represents the two individuals and their new found oneness. 

Blended families: 

Happening every day in America and the world….thank God for hearts that can learn to love again, try again.  It’s worth it but it’s not easy.  Keeping your heart set on the why and how is the key to success. 

“Bea worked with my husband and I as we started our blended family journey. We loved the course she offered and how she helped us understand ourselves better so we can have a strong foundation to build from. I would encourage any couple that is considering blending their families to work with Bea, and if you're already blended, it's never too late to take it back to the basics and give your family the best chance at thriving!” - M.R.

Betrayal or disillusionment due to unresolved conflict: 

Pain, trauma, lost trust, broken promises, worn out from “trying”- just making a real promise to show up and be curious and teachable will land your marriage in a hopeful place and beyond. 

Relationship struggles: 

Everyone finds some relationships are harder to stay connect to than others.  The key is boundaries.  Boundaries allow you to love others because you set realistic expectations and you become confident in what is within your control and what is outside of your control. Navigating relationships with adult children, aging parents, co-parenting, and extended family all require us to reflect on who we are in each of these roles. These situations challenge us to adopt a teachable attitude and be open to personal growth, allowing us to make positive changes in ourselves for the benefit of our relationships.